Associations!

Stay away! Don’t get close! Don’t associate! Don’t befriend! The Book of Proverbs instructs us to avoid certain people in today’s reading. The danger is that these people’s lifestyle, ruin, and end will become ours in time. We are all more easily influenced than we realize.

First up are the corrupt or crooked. They walk a thorny and treacherous road, and those who value life will avoid them (Proverbs 22:5). It is better to live an honest and happy life than constantly watch your back and eventually get caught in your snare. Avoid this person!

Don’t befriend an angry person or associate with the hot-tempered (Proverbs 22:24–25)! Angry people produce angry people. They are full of pride, arrogance, and sinfulness (Proverbs 21:24, 29:22).

Don’t eat with the stingy (Proverbs 23:6–8)! They don’t care about you; you are only a unit of measure to them. They are very judgmental, always judging your actions. Don’t waste your time eating with them!

Don’t hang out with the drunkard or the glutton (Proverbs 23:20–21)! These people are on their way to poverty. The drunkard lives a hard life (Proverbs 23:29–35), and the glutton lacks self-control and is lazy. Everything falls apart around the lazy (Proverbs 24:30–34).

Lastly, don’t associate with the rebellious (Proverbs 24:21–22)! The disobedient are destructive, and destruction comes upon them suddenly and usually without remedy (Proverbs 6:14–15). Stay away from them!

It is better to associate, befriend, and eat with the humble, honest, generous, those of good reputation, the pure of heart, and those of gracious speech and character. Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm. (Proverbs 13:20, ESV)


Thank you for joining me as I read and journal chronologically through the Bible! This devotional reflection comes from Proverbs 22-24.


A good name!

Genealogies! As we open 1 Chronicles this morning, we are greeted with names, nations, and notoriety! Ahead of us are nine chapters of names and nations, taking us back to the beginning with Adam. Unless you enjoy tracing family trees, this may seem boring. As I read through all these names this morning, the idea of notoriety stood out to me.

The reading mentions three men, Nimrod, Er, and Achan. These men are notorious for their wickedness. Nimrod was a man of rebellion before the Lord. Er was so wicked that God killed him. And then there is Achan, the man who stole the spoils that belonged to God and brought disaster upon Israel. Can you imagine having your name in the eternal record with one of these reputations? This reminded me of the following verses.

Choose a good reputation over great riches; being held in high esteem is better than silver or gold. (Proverbs 22:1, NLT)
A good name is better than precious ointment… (Ecclesiastes 7:1, KJV)

The Bible says to choose a good reputation. As we see with Achan, his reputation was based on a choice. Achan decided to steal the spoil set apart for the Lord, which brought trouble upon Israel and his family.

Choosing a good reputation is not as simple as going online, adding it to your cart, and waiting for it to show up at your door in a few days. A good reputation is earned, and anything earned requires time. Proverbs 3:1-4 spells out how to earn a good reputation. In the ESV, the word success in verse four is translated as reputation in the NLT.

Then you will find favor with both God and people, and you will earn a good reputation. (Proverbs 3:4, NLT)

In other words, as we live according to God’s commandments, we will earn the favor and success of a good reputation over time. Now, let’s ask this question. How long does it take to earn a bad reputation? That can happen in a moment, even staining a lifetime’s good reputation.

In other words, what we are looking at here is legacy. Legacy affects our family tree and our genealogy for better or worse. Let us be careful as we live, choosing the legacy of a good name and favor, one decision at a time. It is better than great riches!


Thank you for joining me as I read and journal chronologically through the Bible! This devotional reflection comes from 1 Chronicles 1-2:55.